day 2

Is it possible to retract statements once said .... no 

I'm sure most people would agree that we should think before we say.

I suppose I'm one such person who generally either doesn't speak or thinks too much.. that I lose the chance to speak at a certain time or place or probably talk bluntly without realising the consequences.

Very bad in fact very dangerous isn't it ?

I agree ..

Here again after saying something its the reaction , body language of the other person, my own thought process, which makes things go haywire even before I realise the damage is done.

Though people around have been more sympathetic with me and my 'blessed' nature I'm sure very soon I'll get the brickbats for people will get even with me. I hope I have the energy in me to bear that! 

I have yet to find a solution to this profound problem in my life.

day 1

Our thoughts create our destiny. I have heard about this and read this statement so many times. Does it really happen?

Maybe some would say yes.. some say no..

When certain thoughts are entertained it reflects and gives us immediate results .... almost always. But when we turn back and realise that most were negative thoughts which gave results. And then we keep agonising over the result just wondering why in the first place it did ever happen to us.

An example ... just the other day when i had to iron clothes as i connected the wire in the socket there was this funny thought that struck that this switch is short circuited. This thought kept coming on and on everyday for almost a week and in the process i never did realise that it actually happened and i had to repair it; and the thought recurred again the very next day after i bought it and connected it again and i just let it be .... As the thought came .. had I been more conscious of it maybe i could have stopped it but i didn't. Now after two more days the iron stopped heating. You may call it intuition or whatever.... ! The crux of the matter was i had to buy another iron in the end... little did i realise that i could have stopped the thought then and there .. thereby giving direction to my thoughts more positively .. maybe.

But i have and am still learning it the hard way that maybe i have to be consciously conscious in all my thoughts to achieve anything. Secondly I feel that when we think of someone badly or negatively the aura or vibes as we call it reaches them. Negative vibes reach faster than positive moreover leading us to believe as we all believe that always "hamare saath hi sab galat hota hai.. jitna bhi koshish karo sab bura hota hai" ... blah blah...

I suppose its a learning everyday for me and i have been trying to be conscious in my thoughts that lead to a certain body language and therefore to a positive or negative result.

Hope I get renewed energy to think positively and be able to create my destiny the way I want it to be.